Hello and welcome to our family!! We have designed this blog to keep all of you updated on our family and to give hope for families of "O" babies. It continues to be a long road for our little girl
and we would like to share our journey with you.
Thank you for all your love and support.
~Jen, Matt, Kalista and Lawsyn~


Thursday, May 26, 2011

Teething Woes

We started off the week with Kalista's one year pediatrician appointment for her S-H-O-T-S. We suppose from this point on, we will be spelling out key words to protect Kalista's little ears. So needless to say, she got her infamous vaccinations. As usual, she was fine throughout it all.

Oh my, those little teeth are sharp!! Kalista is teething and trying to put everything in her mouth. As you can tell in this picture below, she is trying to eat our furniture since her teething biscuit didn't do the trick.


Putting Orajel on her gums has been tricky since she will take a bite of you with her new pearly whites on the bottom. And like we've said before...those two little things are sharp! We LOVE the nighttime strength Orajel since it is a blessing. Kalista no longer wakes up in the middle of the early morning crying from the pain. Those three o'clock morning wake ups seem to make mom an ogre beast for the rest of the day. Watch out Shrek!



The positive thing about teething is her increased her appetite to gnaw on almost anything. Healthy foods are obviously not on that list.....except carrot sticks. That apparently is still the exception to the rule.


Now that she can make decisions, she will often take her non-favorite foods and feed them to the dogs. She will either drop them over her high chair and look down to see if Joey and Bella will fight for it or she will sneak it under her tray so they can come up and get it from her. When we catch her in the act, she gives us this look. It is exactly the one you see above in the picture--we call it the "who me?" look.

We have good news! Kalista's teacher, Jodi, came early this week along with Linda, the school speech and language therapist. She told us that Kalista is on track with her speech and language development, even though she has not been getting the same oral input (meaning eating, sucking, swallowing) as her peers. That was very reassuring to know, since research has been shown that non-oral experience can delay speech development in some kids. We knew Kalista was going to be a chatter box someday.



We had our OT/feeding therapy this morning and we have found a common thread in everything that Kalista likes to "eat". They all seem to be solid and very flavorful. She loves the taste of Doritos Nacho Cheese chips, pretzel sticks, Veggie Stix and Fruit-by-the-Foot (since it is attached to paper). We know it all sounds like junk food, but we are happy that she puts any food into her mouth. Earlier this evening, Kalista decided to venture into uncommon area and accepted baby corn back into her circle of trust and honeydew for the first time. We also noticed that if we use "adult" utensils instead of her own cute, bright colored plastic kid version, then she is more willing to try. What a D-I-V-A!

Our OT and probably parents across the world would cringe at the sight of the next few pictures. We really are not raising a junk food addict, but it was too funny not to capture it on camera.

It has been a long discussion in OT about Kalista not wanting to drink from all five different sippy cups that we have for her. They all have something different about them: sippy lip/no sippy lip, silicone/plastic, handle/no handle...you get it. We've even tried cold, ice cold, room temperature and warm beverages with no success. So...it just so happened that we had just finished drinking a can of soda and rested the can on the coffee table. Our little protester of sippy cups decides to cruise herself over to the table, takes the empty soda can and tries it out for herself. Yah....explain that one!


(Um yeah...no endorsements here...right?)

The funny thing is that it looks like she has mastered the art of drinking from a can.


Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Kalista Picked....

You guessed it....she didn't pick any of the cars. Kalista picked the Trike!



Watch her GO!!!!
(with the help of dad, of course)



Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Test Drive....I'll Take This One!

We took Kalista to good 'ol Toys 'R' Us so she could pick out her birthday present from us. We looked around and Kalista test drove every possible vehicle she could fit in before she made her final decision.


Making faces with mom while shopping

Test Drive #1: The Smartcar

Test Drive #2: The Mini Cooper

Test Drive #3: The VW Bug

Test Drive #4: The Mickey Mouse Sports Car


And the winner was.........






Monday, May 16, 2011

Birthday Party


Thanks to everyone Kalista had a fabulous FIRST birthday party!

Here are some pictures from the event:


We had a waterfall with little fish frames holding Kali's photos

Our backyard actually fit quite a number of folks

Kalista is hoping the sun will break through the clouds

We had a good spread of yummy foods

Kalista hanging out with her cousin

With all the cool toys to play with...she grabbed her wooden spoon


Preparing herself with the musical cake


At least she was willing to touch her cake

She clapped after everyone sang "Happy Birthday" to her

Hanging out with friends and family

The ball pit was the hit of the party


All the kiddos decided to declare 3 pm as official nap time. Kalista fell asleep and didn't open any of her presents until later that night. Thank you again for the wonderful and generous presents!

All our awesome birthday cards

Kalista opening some of her gifts


**Update (5/18/11): After three days, Kalista finally opened all her presents. Thank you everyone for your generosity! Now we have to build on to our house to fit all of Kalista's things.




Sunday, May 15, 2011

Party On!!!


Although this picture was taken a few days ago on Kalista's actual birthday, it was a much more successful cake experience than today's repeat birthday cake celebration. No messy face pictures....just messy hair and hands. She clapped at the end of everyone's beautiful rendition of "Happy Birthday" and enjoyed all the attention. She did great today and let many people carry her around the house. She just loves to be held and she knows that her cute chubby cheeks are the winning ticket to melt anyone's heart.

We have not had a chance to upload any of the pictures from the party, but we will for sure post some in the next day or two for those who were unable to come by. We just want to thank everyone who came, that we really appreciate all of you spending part of your Sunday with us and Kalista thanks everyone for their generous gifts (which were totally unnecessary by the way...since she has plenty of toys and entertainment in her big playroom).

Friday, May 13, 2011

Kalista's First Birthday

We celebrated Kalista's birthday with Mickey Mouse and his friends yesterday. We took a trip to the Second Happiest Place On the Earth....Downtown Disney.

We started off the day by picking up Jen's mom from the airport and then headed up to Anaheim for a day of fun. We had a great lunch at the Rainforest Cafe. Kalista enjoyed coloring her placemat and watched all the animated rainforest animals come to life.

After lunch, we walked around and checked out all the new shops that have popped up since we were there last. Kalista loved the World of Disney store. She was able to identify a few of her favorite characters, Rapunzel and her pal Pascal, were a few she knew. She giggled and poked at the packaging. She even picked out a shirt for herself that she liked. It's amazing what they know at this age and what they do about it! When we were at Costco the other day, Kalista tried to slip a blu-ray copy of Bambi into our cart when we weren't watching. What are we in for in the future?

Here are a few pictures from our fun day's events:

Waiting for our table at the restaurant


Hanging out with Grandma while waiting for beignets


Went shopping and Kalista got her first set of Mickey Ears


Waiting for the unveiling of the new California Adventures entrance

Kalista standing in front of the Disneyland entrance


After a long afternoon at Downtown Disney, we headed back to San Diego with an order from The Boiling Crab in tow for dinner. We absolutely love that place! Yum yum yum!


Home at last and had her toy cake ready


She wasn't too thrilled to see the real cake

Kalista did eventually get the courage and touched her cake oh so carefully. She got a little frustrated that the frosting got stuck to her hands, but managed to get rid of some of it on Jen's face. How awesome!

At the end of the day, we knew Kalista had a great first birthday!


Sunday, May 8, 2011

Birthday Countdown....4 More Days

4 more days until the BIG ONE !


Not too many new things have happened in the past week. No new doctor visits. No new therapies.

Kalista dropped in on a Gymboree music class this pass Wednesday and had a blast with all the music instruments and songs. The big drum was her favorite and she was not shy beating it loudly. We admit that she gets a lot of practice at home..all she needs is a wooden spoon and away she goes. So this week's theme was Salsa. We learned "Where is Thumbkin?" in Spanish and we frolicked around the room to some salsa mix.

She even met some new friends while playing in the band and luckily, missed a near disaster. Since we have been working so diligently on the feeding thing, we have been role reversing and having Kalista feed us and put things in our mouths when we open it. Well, she took it upon her self to try to feed one little boy in the class a drumstick since he opened his mouth while sitting next to her. Oh Kalista! Luckily, we caught that before an eye was poked out.

We are wrapping again!!! Our compression wrapping took a little bit of a hiatus for the pass two days. Kalista developed a severe case of dry skin on her belly and it became red, inflamed and crusty, so we opted to wait on the wrap until it calmed down. It looked so much better today so we decided to try the bandage wrap that Dr. Gosman gave us when we saw her for our surgery consult. It feels more cloth-like and self adheres with velcro (such a plus over those gnarly metal hooks). We have added a "Compression Wrapping" page on the blog so we can see if any progress is made in the next few months.


Sunday, May 1, 2011

Crawling Around


Yahoo...it's BIRTHDAY month for Kalista! (and Jen too)

We have been planning and cleaning the house like tazmanian devils. We can't wait to see Kalista demolish her cake with her hands and maybe if we are lucky...her face. (Other parents probably discourage messy faces...but we are on the other extreme...messy face...bring it on! It means we did something right.)

Kalista is crawling up a storm and cruising around the house. She has also been testing out those balance skills too. Here's a mini sequence of her abilities:


Check that balance out...no hands!


Now that she is more mobile, she is doing a lot more exploring. She discovered a view from her bedroom window and decided to crawl over there to check it out.



She banged loudly on the window and probably scared all our neighbors. How often do you see a toddler banging on windows like the house was on fire? We nipped that in the bud quickly. She definitely was not too happy about that!